Children grow up, and the sibling relationship grows with them. Either time makes it stronger and more solid, or weakens it by surrendering to life’s concerns and fluctuations. Parents bring siblings together and bring them closer together when they are young, and after them they assume the responsibility of maintaining this relationship themselves.
With the passage of time, conditions and circumstances change. After everyone lived under one roof and with one standard of living, life paths differ, income levels differ, responsibilities and connections multiply, and here is the true test that shows the true nature of brotherhood.
The strength of the relationship between brothers is not measured by the number of meetings or calls, but rather by the sincerity of feelings, hidden invitations, and sincere positions when needed. Circumstances may not allow for frequent meetings, but true love remains present in hearts, and is demonstrated by situations when a brother needs his brother or sister.
One of the most important things in preserving this legacy is for each one to appreciate the other’s circumstances and responsibilities, to respect their privacy, decisions and choices, and not to interpret preoccupation as indifference or negligence. Life changes, and circumstances differ, but true brotherhood accommodates these changes and maintains its warmth and affection.
It is part of loyalty to brotherhood that a person maintains the status of his brother or sister, and shows respect and appreciation for him in front of a relative before a distant one, especially in front of his children and his wife or the children of his sister and her husband. A kind word and sincere respect not only preserve the relationship, but also deepen and renew it with the passage of time.
It is not necessary that communication between brothers be related to an occasion or need. How many short messages or passing calls to show longing or reassurance have brought joy to the heart of a brother or sister, as expressing feelings of affection sustains relationships, especially if it is one of the people dearest to the heart.
When brothers are keen on these meanings, they not only preserve their relationship, but also preserve their most precious legacy that their parents instilled in them. What is most beautiful is that they become a role model for their sons and daughters, and a living model of true brotherhood, from whom they learn that love, respect, and support are not words that are said, but rather behavior that is practiced. Thus, this precious legacy is passed from grandparents to children, then to grandchildren, and its impact continues, generation after generation.
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